Dominatrix for couples, London
I am particularly fond of couples and female submissives. It is such an honour, and a great erotic and sexual pleasure to me, to facilitate a romantic couple experiencing domination and submission under me.
What a couples session is
One Dominatrix and two of you, in the same room, for the same session. People sometimes arrive at this page looking for a duo, which is two Dominants and a single client. A couples session is the other way around, and it is a different thing altogether: you come together, as a couple, and the session is built around the pair of you.
Most couples who book one have never done anything like it before, which is the ordinary case here and worth saying plainly. The picture most people arrive with is of a couple who already know exactly what they are doing, and that couple is the rarity.
How it can be arranged
There is more than one shape a couples session can take, and the couple chooses which one:
- Both of you under me, together. This is the one I love most, and it is the one my own words above are about.
- The two of us dominating your partner between us, if one of you leads at home and wants to lead here.
- Me dominating the one of you who is usually in charge, which is a very different evening for both of you.
- Me guiding while the two of you do the work, if what you want is to learn how to do this with each other.
You don't have to know which of these you want before you write to me. We can work that out in the first conversation. That conversation happens before any session is arranged, and there is no play in it.
Consent, when there are two of you
With two people there are two sets of desires and two sets of limits, and they are rarely identical. I take each of yours separately and in confidence before anything is arranged, so that what I design accounts for what you share with each other and for what either of you would rather keep private for now.
It also means I hear from both of you directly. If one of you is arranging this for the other, however lovingly, I want to hear from the other one too, in their own words, before we go any further. There is a field on the enquiry form for your partner's email so I can do exactly that.
Whether sex is part of it
This is the question every couple asks, so here is the answer without you having to ask it.
I adore the sensual side of submission. Everything I do is laced in eroticism and sexuality, so you don't have to worry or ask whether there is close physical contact or sexual pleasure involved in my sessions, because to me BDSM cannot exist without sexual pleasure as well as sexual torment.
What happens between the two of you, and what either of you wants from me, is settled in the conversation beforehand, in the same way as everything else.
Queer, gay, bi and non-binary couples
You are welcome here on exactly the same footing as anybody else. I am a queer identifying woman, and I like having women, femmes and trans women at my feet, so a couple of any configuration is unremarkable to me.
Aftercare
Aftercare is held for both of you, together. You arrived together and you leave together, and the hour afterwards belongs to the session.