Lesbian Dominatrix, London

Yes, I see women

You have probably had to work quite hard to find that sentence written down anywhere. Almost every Dominatrix in this country writes as though every person reading is a man, and a woman who wants to kneel for another woman is left to guess whether she would even be welcome. So it is worth putting at the top of the page.

Being a queer identifying woman, I think, explains why I like having women and femmes and trans women at my feet.

Women, femmes and trans women are a part of my practice that I actively seek out, and I would like a great deal more of it.

You are not unusual for wanting this

Fantasies of submission are common in women, and the research that measures this finds sexual submission to be a statistically ordinary interest. How little of it is ever discussed out loud says nothing whatsoever about how many people share it.

Being dominated by a woman, as a woman, separates power from the gender script it usually arrives attached to, and for a great many queer and gender-expansive people that is precisely the appeal.

What I am like in a session

I'm well known for my sensual style of play, unfathomable teasing, and commitment to my pleasure being a sense of torment as well as reward for you.

I adore the sensual side of submission. Everything I do is laced in eroticism and sexuality, so you don't have to worry or ask whether there is close physical contact or sexual pleasure involved in my sessions, because to me BDSM cannot exist without sexual pleasure as well as sexual torment.

That second paragraph answers the question most women write in to ask, so you can stop composing the polite version of it.

If you have never done this before

Most women who come to me have not. You do not need experience, a vocabulary, or a worked-out list of what you want. You need to be able to tell me roughly what draws you and what you would rather not do, and I can do the rest of the work of shaping it.

We agree a word that pauses everything before we begin, and it keeps working for the whole session, including for things you said yes to an hour earlier.

Trans women

You are welcome on exactly the same terms as everybody else on this page. Tell me your pronouns when you write, and I will use them.

Booking

If you are coming with a partner, the couples session is the page you want.

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