OTK and traditional discipline

I do enjoy, for those who partake, OTK and traditional disciplinarian sessions. They have a very special place in not only my heart but my repertoire.

Having a naughty boy or girl over my knee is one of the most erotic experiences I've had in my long career of being a professional Naughty Woman.

What OTK means

Over the knee. You are put across my lap, which puts you lower than me, holds you still, and leaves me with a hand free. The position does most of the work before anything else happens.

What makes a session discipline

Corporal punishment is defined by its frame. Correction, ritual, consequence, a reason given and a count kept. Corporal punishment is impact play wearing that frame, and the frame holds whether the implement is a hand, a hairbrush, a strap or a cane. A hard cane stroke delivered for the sensation of it is impact play. A single slap delivered because you were told what would happen and it happened is discipline.

Severity is a dial we set between us. The frame is set before we start.

Where spanking actually sits

Everything that involves striking the body sits under impact play, at every weight from barely-there to genuinely hard. Spanking is one act within that, and nothing about the word tells you how hard. Whatever you have read, the implement does not decide that. The person holding it does, and a warm-up by hand is as much my work as a cane is.

It's rarely only about the sting. There's the ritual, the power in the arrangement, the warmth that spreads afterwards, and a great deal of play in it. Most people who ask me for this want the arrangement more than they want the pain.

If you have never been put over a knee

Then you are in the majority of people who write to me about it, and you can say so plainly when you do.

We start light and build, because that is how the skin and the nerves respond best and because I want to watch what happens to you on the way up. Blows land on the fleshy places and nowhere near the kidneys, the spine, the tailbone or the joints. You have a word that pauses everything, and it works for the whole session, including for things you agreed to an hour earlier.

Discipline, and everything around it

The correction is rarely the whole of it. Anticipation, the waiting, being told what is going to happen and then made to wait for it, the position itself, and how thoroughly I am enjoying the arrangement, all belong to the session as much as the strokes do.

Everything I do is laced in eroticism and sexuality, so you don't have to worry or ask whether there is close physical contact or sexual pleasure involved in my sessions.

Booking

Write to me and say what draws you to it, whether you've done it before, and whether the frame you want is discipline or sensation.

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